In Episode 9 of ABA-LLCs Parent Training series, TLBA Kyle Strunk teaches parents about a powerful tool from Applied Behavior Analysis. Planned ignoring is a tool that can be used to decrease tantrums and other unwanted behaviors. Kids learn how to get what they want when their behavior is positively reinforced; so if you give them attention after every tantrum, the tantrums will continue. Planned ignoring involves structuring a safe environment in which you as the parent STOP responding to unwanted behavior while REINFORCING positive behaviors.
Disclaimer
Planned Ignoring should only be used for non-harmful, attention seeking behaviors. DO NOT ever ignore a child who is in distress or danger. Additionally, you should never ignore a child in public. Remember; it’s about ignoring the BEHAVIOR, not the child.
When using planned ignoring, ALWAYS provide your child with an alternative behavior. Tell them what you want them to do. For example, you could verbally say “I will talk to you when you stop yelling.”, and repeat this as often as you need.
About ABA Parent Training
ABA Parent Training helps parents learn the basics of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) and how they can use it in their parenting. ABA is commonly associated with kids on the autism spectrum. However, we believe that these data-backed tools can be helpful for students of all ages and abilities. Each video focuses on a different aspect of ABA, and connects our topic to its real world application. Learn how the data-verified science of ABA can help you in your parenting journey! Past topics have included the Function of behavior, prevention strategies, and reinforcement. We are always open to feedback from our audience about what they would like to learn next! Watch our playlist to enjoy the whole series!
About ABA-LLC
ABA-LLC is one of the largest suppliers of Behavior Support in the State of Kentucky. Since 2007, the agency has created innovative strategies to improve the lives of unique individuals. ABA-LLC works with around 190 contractors, each dedicated to building an inclusive culture that celebrates individuals of all abilities. No matter who you are, you can reach your goals at ABA-LLC. ABA-LLC is set apart from its competitors by its uniquely person-centered approach. The agency strives to provide services from a place of deep love for the population they serve. Their work exemplifies the belief that every individual has a right to live a fulfilling and independent life integrated within their communities. There is no objective to change a person, but rather to give them the tools they need to succeed. B.F. Skinner summarizes this vision in his quote: “I’m not trying to change people. All I want is to change the world in which they live.” Learn more about us at https://aba-llc.com/